I think this is the first
Thanksgiving Day that I haven’t seen my parents. Don’t feel bad for
me, I just spent 5 days in Michigan with my parents and my sister and her
family. We had some stuff going on that required schedule
adjustments, so we did our “Apfelgiving” together last
Saturday. While I was driving from Kalamazoo back to Cleveland
yesterday I had some time to think and that led to this post. I’m
thankful for so many things.
First and foremost I’m thankful that as I approach
my 47th birthday, the parents my sister and I used to call the
“old parents” are still with us. While we can still all frustrate
each other, we’re lucky to have each other and that we can always come together
on important days. You think you’re funny when you're a kid and say you
have the “old” parents because they’re in their forties and your friends’
parents are in their thirties…it’s a gift when you realize your "old"
folks have outlived a lot of those peers.
I’m thankful that my sister and I can
spend our adult lives hundreds of miles apart, see each other a few times a
year and still have a pretty cool bond. We were a team as kids and
when it needs to happen we’re still that team today. I’m thankful
that even as he becomes a sometimes stereotypical teenager, my 13 year old
nephew still wants me to play video games with him. And I’m thankful that
while he used to lay his head on my shoulder, now when I lay my head on his
shoulder the man-child lays his head on top of mine.
Since my blog is about Type
1 diabetes, I can’t leave that off the list. I’m not grateful I have
Type 1, I’d obviously rather take a pass on that. But I’m thankful
that I got it instead of it hitting anyone I know. I’m thankful I
live in a time and place where insulin exists and that I have the access,
insurance coverage and finances that make it easy to get everything I need to
stay alive. I’m grateful that it eventually stopped making me insane and
became a (mostly) seamless part of everyday life.
I’m thankful that I’m healthy,
even though I’m “sick.” I’m thankful for the 3 crazy friends who are
willing to follow my Dexcom and check on me when my sugar is low, including the
text and phone call that jolted me just after 3:30 this
morning. It’s an incredible gift that you’re all willing to lose
sleep to make sure I wake up. I’m thankful to have a friend who was
with me the day I was diagnosed, who carries glucose in case I run out, who
learned how to stab me and check my blood sugar when I can’t, and who wants to
learn how to inject insulin in case I’m in the hospital one day and can’t do it
myself. But to be honest…she’ll never read this far because my blog
posts have too many words for her liking. J
Because of our schedule
adjustment this week, I’m watching the Lions Thanksgiving game for the first
time in a long time instead of listening in the car on the way to see my
family. I’m not sure if I’ll be too thankful about that
later! I’m 100% looking forward to seeing the Michigan vs. Ohio
State game for the first time since they moved the game back a week, since I’m
usually enjoying family time instead. Go Blue! And since
it’s the little things that really matter most in life, I’m thankful that my
dad hooked me up with my favorite breakfast on earth for the second time since
T1D landed in our world. His French Toast, made with my mom’s homemade
Challah and topped with her homemade raspberry jam...it's breakfast
perfection. I had the leftovers here at home for Thanksgiving.
Smucker's sugar free raspberry is nowhere near the real thing, but it was still
a great start to the day.
Enjoy the holiday and your families and
friends. I don’t say it often enough - thank you for
reading. I’m so grateful for all of you following along.
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